The One Thing About Sex/Erotica I Wish I’d Know Before

Before getting involved in SEX, I dreamed about it and had some different stories in my mind! However, once I had sex, it was a different experience, and I would like to narrate my experience here. Although I felt all grown up and had those happy hormones running in my body, I was in a state of ‘Shock’. On one side, I was extremely glad that this ‘Finally’ did happen, but on the other side, my nervousness had not gone down at all.

I was on cloud nine because I was in love, and my relationship suddenly felt more serious, and suddenly I felt like an ‘Adult’. However, my experience of ‘Sex’ was very different from how other people had described it. I had some weird things that I realised were all cooked up stories half of the time and were not true at all.

Here are a few things I wish I knew before about sex/erotica:

The first time does not hurt! Although I had heard that first time hurts, but this is not the case with everyone. My first time was very gentle and did not hurt at all. The truth is that it may just be an ‘Uncomfortable’ experience for a few seconds, and post that you will feel all happy and nothing will be uncomfortable or awkward. I wish someone had told me to enjoy the experience, keep it slow and not rush onto things. Instead, I was doing the opposite, and I feel if I had gotten this advice earlier, I would have had more fun, and I would have felt more.

No, you will not have loads of diseases! I had read this in multiple books and heard this from many friends that you will have plenty of conditions post-sex. This is the biggest myth about sex and is not the actual truth. Many adults try and frighten the youth about the consequences of having sex and how it can cause many diseases. Instead of the experience, you have while having sex or post is the opposite of ‘Frightening’. If I was told this before, I would have never panicked during that situation, and I would have just enjoyed the moment instead of panicking about it. If you or your partner are using protection, don’t worry, you are safe and do not need to overthink anything else.

Men enjoy it more than women! This is one myth which has been making rounds for I don’t know decades. If you are with someone whom you love and both of you are in a very close relationship, then it is not just the man who will enjoy having sex for the first time, the woman will equally enjoy. If you are with someone who is caring, compassionate, and you are comfortable with, you will enjoy sex, and there is no doubt about that fact.